Showing posts with label massage. Show all posts
Showing posts with label massage. Show all posts

Thursday, 26 March 2015

Pain in the butt? What to do about it.

Pain in the butt? What to do about it.

The statistics for back pain are staggering. Back pain is very common and according to a survey published recently almost half the adult population of the UK report low back pain lasting for at least 24 hours at some time in the year. It is estimated that four out of every five adults will experience back pain at some stage in their life. The cost to the local economy and to one's health is enormous. Recently nearly 5 million working days were lost as a result of back pain. This means that on any one day 1% of the working population are on sickness leave due to a back problem. Back pain is the number 2 reason for long-term sickness in much of the UK.

If you had persistent back pain it used to be suggested that bed rest was the only solution and people used to be confined to their beds for months on end. As medical knowledge has improved, this is no longer the case. It is just as well that this advice is no longer followed as it leads to muscle wastage and can affect one's mental wellbeing. Recent researches in numerous countries have shown that the best way to manage back pain is through activity which help to strengthen the core muscles. These muscles are crucial in supporting our frames and any strengthening of muscles will also help to support the areas affected. Activities needed to strengthen muscles are varied and can include everything from gentle walking to vigorous swimming. Also, gentle exercise routines Such as Pilates or Yoga are worth investigating.

As a back pain sufferer I know just how pain can affect one's whole wellbeing. Life can become a struggle and the pain seems to be ever-present and dominating one's life. I remember when I first had my first attack of bad sciatica and things were desperate for me. Pain definitely has a way of saying “don't ignore me”! I tried out the usual physio and walking. It wasn't until I had some sessions of acupuncture that things began to improve. I also has regular massage sessions with a therapist who went on to become my massage tutor! I noticed the massage sessions helped me to unwind and forget my pain for duration of the treatment. The good news was that these 'feel-good effects' carried on for some time afterwards and I was able to 'bank' them. I decided to combine the treatments with gentle walking by joining a health group ran by the local Council and also a local walking group run by the local church. I made a point of noticing everything around me and tried to be calm.
I also joined a swimming group as I knew that I wouldn't turn up to swim on my own! These combined activities helped me to feel better about myself physically.

In addition to my own self-help activities I also had traction, heat treatments and prescribed exercises from the physiotherapist. I'm pleased to say that I still carry on with some of these regimes to maintain my wellbeing and strengthen my core muscles. I think that once you have had back pain then its best to keep on top of it by looking after it and pampering it. Pain isn't fun!

As well as physically looking after myself I also made sure that my mental wellbeing was taken care of. I did this by surrounding myself with supportive friends and family and making sure that I had social activities planned most days. This could be anything from meeting up for a natter and coffee (not forgetting the cake!) to going for a special outing to the beach or an exhibition. I found that having company helped me and having planned distractions outside the house greatly helped me too. These activities do not have to involve any cost – just forward planning!

I also found that “rewarding” myself & “self-talk” tactics were very useful. By rewards I mean little treats like: “I'll have a drink/biscuit after I've done this set of exercise”. Or saying to myself: “I will feel better and I will get better”. When I said that to myself I made sure that I put the emphasis on “will”. Thinking in the positive was cathartic and I am sure it helped towards my recovery.

However, it wasn't all plain sailing for me. There were days when the pain was so bad that I felt like just crawling under the duvet and staying there. Fortunately for me lying down was one of the worst positions for me.

Don't give up hope if you are in constant pain. Make sure that you are getting all the help that the National Health can provide for you and also make sure that your condition has been thoroughly investigated. Don't leave any stones unturned. I know this is easier said than done. When you are in pain it can take your self-confidence away and your ability to concentrate and communicate effectively may well be gone. If this does happen to you then make sure that you've got a family member/friend to support you. If you don't want to share this with family/friends then there are also many charities that may be able to support and act as your advocate. MIND is one of the most active charities in supporting people's mental wellbeing. You may also find that joining a support / interest group may well help you.


As a massage therapist I often get clients with back pain and I know from what they say just how badly it can affect them. Not only does their health suffer but their work, their finances and their personal life can suffer too. Please don't suffer in silence as there's help available.






If you approach your pain with a positive mind combined with some physical manipulation such as massage/yoga then you may be able to bring it under control or at least get some relief. Good luck.






Monday, 17 March 2014

MS & Massage

I recently had the privilege of working at the MS Therapy Centre in Norwich, NR6 6BB. The photos below shows the hand massages I gave the volunteers & some of their families:-



Getting ready for my day at the MS Centre



















One of their wonderful volunteers having a hand massage

Multiple Sclerosis (MS) is a neurological condition & the diagram below clearly shows the damage that occurs in the myelin which is a protective sheath surrounding the nerve fibres of the Central Nervous System (CNS):-


As a result messages get scrambled & as there are no clear pathways this may affects movements. It can also result in poor mobility, pain & impaired cognitive abilities.







Women's Health Forum

One for the ladies! I'm so delighted to say that I've been invited to do an interactive talk & offer mini treatments at this event focusing on women's health this coming Sunday. 

Please come along & support. Venue in central Norwich, NR2 1SF, opposite the delightful Chapelfield Park.


Wednesday, 12 February 2014

Massage sessions de-mystified!




For those who have never had a massage before I'm often asked what its like! Well, that's a difficult question to answer as everyone responds differently to a session & each experience will be an unique one depending on what they are having, the experience of the therapist & what state the person treating is in. I'm also often asked do I have to undress completely? Well, the answer again is its up to you! Most clients undress down to their underwear but you can have all your clothes on & have what's called a 'seated clothed massage' as can be seen from the picture below:- 

Clothed seated massage by Bibi

Also, you don’t have to lie down on a massage couch if that's difficult for you to do. You can have a massage in almost any position: lying on your side, standing against a wall, on your stomach or on your back. Should a client choose to undress to their underwear then they are covered with towels & these are carefully moved as required to carry out the treatment. 

The other question that I'm often asked is: 'what happens during a session? Well,that depends on what treatment you have come for and the therapist you see! With my own practice there is always a full consultation so that
your medical history and lifestyle can be taken into consideration in the treatment plan. If you have come for a unclothed massage then you get changed in privacy and lie on the couch. I then start the treatment & will ask for feedback from you regarding the strokes & pressure etc. 

At the end we chat about the treatment and your aftercare is outlined. This is written down & given to you as a reminder. Also, I will advise about what you can do in-between treatments to maintain or improve your body’s equilibrium. This may be through gentle stretching exercises which I'll show you or changes to your lifestyle or diet may be discussed.


Upper back massage by Bibi








Shoulder & arm massage by Bibi


Leg massage by Bibi

Thursday, 6 February 2014

Massage & your Wellbeing

Massage & your Wellbeing



A simple hand massage as carried out by Bibi

In order to function at your optimum it is important to look after your mind, body & soul as they function as a whole. Massage is just one way of looking after your wellbeing & may have the following effects on you depending on your condition and the type massage treatment you have:-


* Massages may enable you to function at your maximum as it may help to regulate your sleep patterns, eliminate toxins and impurities. It will also help to restore your strength and mobility by increasing your energy levels.


* Massages may reduce your stress and anxiety, deepen your relaxation and improve your self-esteem by improving your concentration & mental clarity.


* Medical research on massage has also shown it may help to relieve your muscle tension & stiffness and deepen your breathing. It may also balance your digestive system and support your lymphatic system.


* Finally and more importantly, it may induce a sense of mental wellbeing which makes you feel more able to cope better with the strain and stresses of daily life.

Tuesday, 4 February 2014

Self-care for carers


'Self-care for carers' 


I've been thinking for some times what an amazing job carers do; some chose to do out of love, some out of friendship & some find themselves doing it by accident. I'm sure that there are very few people who would choose to do this almost 24 hour job without any timed breaks. This was brought home to me recently when I was talking to a carer at an interactive session I did on 'Stress Management & Relaxation'. He mentioned that he's the full time carer for his wife & he had to leave his job to do this. He says the most exhausting thing about looking after her is he never knows when he'll have his own time & finds it difficult to plan anything as his wife can be taken ill at any time. I've been thinking about the strain this must put on his health & wellbeing as well as the restrictions it must place on his social life.

To this end I've put these 5 self-help suggestions together to help those doing this very valuable job of caring:-

  1. It is crucial for the sake of those you care for & also for yourself to take time out. This doesn't have to be for a long time, just a few minutes on your own EVERY DAY would be beneficial. During this time it'd be helpful if you had your eyes closed and listened to yourself breathing. Concentrate on the breathing & when you mind drifts away from your breathing then gently come back to this. Try & do this for at least 5 minutes.
  1. When you are able to, listen to the music you used to like. Music helps to bring back memories & relaxes the mind. The person you are caring for may well like this activity too.
  1. Don't forget to keep up with your social contacts. This may be difficult to do time wise but it doesn't have to be for long lengthy periods. Just dropping someone a note, which only takes a few minutes whether on-line or hand written, would be wonderful for the person receiving and also for you. You may think your friend/relative doesn't want to hear from you but the person may also be thinking that you're too busy to keep in touch. So go on & make the first move & see what happens.
  1. Try not to snatch meals; if possible make an occasion of it by eating slowly & enjoying your food. Your digestive system would be grateful to you!
  1. After having a shower/bath spend a little while spreading cream all over your body to refresh & calm yourself. A simple & gentle sweeping actions with your hands would help to relax the nerves. It is best to use a sensitive body lotion.
Hope these suggestions help. If you would like to add some more then please do & I'll post them too. Many thanks.








Wednesday, 29 January 2014

Bibi's Wellbeing 1st blog - welcome!

Hello & welcome to Bibi's Wellbeing blogs

This is my 1st blog so go gentle on this beginner! In my blogs I'll give advice, information & guidance to do with your wellbeing; especially 'relaxation & stress management'. This is an area that is of great interest to me & I have spent many years gaining the experience to deliver this to others. I'm a complementary massage therapist, specialising in helping ladies to take care of their mind, body & soul. I'm also a speaker, demonstrator & trainer on all things to do with your wellbeing.

I've been working in this field for many years and I am an ex-lecturer, mother & volunteer for many organisations. I'm well aware of the stresses & pressures of modern life.

Well, a little about myself now. I'm told that I had my first massage when I was a few minutes old to see if all was well! This is how things are done in a small rural village in rural India. No modern machines to help the midwife then! Since then I've found massages to be extremely helpful to relieve stress & calm me. I now consider it as a necessary part of my wellbeing rather than as a 'special' treat. 

I'm based in the historic & lovely city of Norwich, Norfolk.

A massage will help you to achieve inner calm & relax so please give me a call -  07717089280  -  to make an appointment & discuss your individual needs. 

As an added bonus there's £10 off your 1st appointment.


Massage - a delightful way to unwind & achieve inner calm